By Doug Sorito
LOS ANGELES (TNA) – If there ever was a moment when Violet Marcell realized her sexual interests weren’t going to lead her towards the mainstream, it was the very moment she lost her virginity.
The 27-year-old Toronto porn actress waited until she was a relatively old 19 to pop her cherry, but did it with a bang by having a threesome.
Marcell told the steamy story during her Aug. 4 live chat with Naughty America, and says the erotic encounter occurred when she met a couple at a bar and decided to go back to their place for a party.
The Canadian cutie says the guy started giving his girlfriend a backrub and then suggested Marcell lend a hand.
She lent more than that. She lent her whole body and ended up having a firsttime sexual experience that set the tone for her life.
“It set the precedent to my lifestyle,” Marcell confessed moments after the chat. “I definitely enjoy threesomes. I have a boyfriend, but we’re pretty open. We share boys and girls… I mean, he’s straight, but he’ll happily go to bed with me and another guy or we’ll bring a couple to bed, or girls to bed. So it’s made me more open to different experiences and to living more of a casual lifestyle.”
In fact, the only thing that Marcell has in common with monogamy is that they both begin with the letter “M.”
“To me, sex shouldn’t be exclusive and just with this person or this person. It’s human nature,” she said. “We’re not meant to be monogamous, so that first threesome kind of helped me grow up that way.”
But while Marcell loves group encounters – and actually hosts many orgies – she’s not opposed to one-on-one encounters.
“I still love all the traditional foreplay,” she said. “I love the tickling and the teasing. One-on-one sex can be just as great as group sex.”
However, she didn’t actually try single-partner sex until a half-year after her first threesome.
“My first one-on-one encounter was maybe six months after the threesome,” Marcell said. “I hooked up with the one couple I lost my virginity to and we fooled around for about two months that way and then it was back to my lonesome self. Then I met my ex-boyfriend --who was awful in bed -- and that’s when I started doing ‘regular sex.’”
Although Marcell says her ex was a lame sexual partner, she didn’t let him sour her pussy on all the pervy possibilities.
“I had such amazing sex with the couple that I knew when I was dating the guy that there was better sex out there,” she said. “It didn’t slow me down. It just helped me set my priorities and not to waste my time on people who are not worth it.”
Marcell may have waited 19 years to actually pop her cherry, but she knew she was a closet freak from a young age.
“I wouldn’t say I ‘saved myself for sex’ because I was always a closet nympho and exhibitionist,” she said. “I grew up a nerd. I went to band camp and I basically had perfect grades in high school, even though I didn’t study a single hour the whole time. I still came out with a ridiculously high average. I was very good at everything I put my mind to, but, consequently, I was an outcast and I didn’t have the opportunity [to have sex].
“I knew early on that I wasn’t looking for a boyfriend. I wasn’t trying to find that right man for me. I just wanted to have sex and see what it was all about. So I just masturbated a lot.”
But Marcell put that time waiting to have sex to good use. She learned how to play clarinet and credits the instrument with helping her perfect her remarkable deep throating skills.
“I’m not sticking the clarinet down my throat, but I guess it has taught me breath control and, of course, you cannot breathe when you have a cock in your throat, so it prepared me for it in that way.
“Also, going through the typical outcast nerdy girl period, I went through body issues and I was bulimic for a little while and I kind of staved off my gag reflex that way (although I wouldn’t recommend that to anyone).”
Marcell also got some practice for her future career by working as a masseuse in Toronto when she was 18. She makes no bones that the reason she took the job was so she’d have the opportunity to give happy endings to her customers.
“Up until the first day I worked there, I had never seen a naked man. So they had to take me into a room with one of the other girls and show me what to do because I had no idea,” Marcell said.
Still, she was a quick learner.
“It was really hot. I knew what I was getting into but I had never done it before,” she said. “It was a lot of fun and it taught me to be open-minded and enjoy your work. You have to enjoy sensuality as opposed to sexuality. You have to enjoy them both. I really enjoy making men cum so it just worked for me.”
One thing that didn’t work for Marcell was marriage. She was married to a Canadian woman for what she describes as “four looooong years.”
It has affected her views on the institution of marriage, both for gays and for straights.
“I’m not for same-sex or opposite sex marriage right now because I live a very open lifestyle,” she said. “I just feel if you’re really going to be with someone the rest of your life, you choose to be with each other. Therefore, inviting the government into your bedroom is just wrong.
“If you’re really and truly happy with this person and you’re going to be with them forever, why do you need a piece of paper to document that?”
Marcell said she knew early on that her marriage wasn’t going to last and admits she tied the knot more out of obligation than anything else.
“I was fairly young and naïve and I thought I could make it work. It was someone who claimed to love me – and I had never been in love before, so I thought that’s what love was. I don’t regret it, but I just wouldn’t do it again.
“The fact that it was to a woman doesn’t make a difference. If it had been to a guy it would’ve been the same thing.”
Although Marcell has been in the jizz biz for two years, she admits she’s filmed relatively fewer scenes than her counterparts because she wants to avoid overexposure.
“I plan to be in this business a very long time and eventually have my own production company,” she said. “I love my body and I work very hard for it right now and I love showing it off while I can, but, let’s face it, nobody is going to look 25 forever, and I don’t really want to go the plastic surgery route because it’s just not something I want to do.”
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