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BY MATT ELLIS
AUGUST 13, 2007

NEW YORK (TNA) -- Mistress Alina is a sweet, young woman who makes a living off of pain and sexual perversion. As she is a professional dominatrix, she has a firm grip on what goes on behind dungeon doors.

Some people just don’t understand BDSM, while others understand it all too well.  But it is for those who prefer vanilla sex that she explains the mysteries and sheds some light on one of the darkest industries in America. 

Becoming a dominatrix must be a hard thing to get into.  How did you know you were able to do it as a career? 

Mistress Alina is pleased to beat you.

I knew I could do it because of the first session I had.  It’s this Japanese mistress and her Japanese client -- it’s the first day that I’m there and I was like, “Hey, can I watch your session?” Now, she didn’t tell me that her client only spoke Japanese. So, I had no idea what the fuck was going on the whole time.  [laughs] First, we shoved a candle up this guy’s ass, and we made him play a ring-toss game where he had to catch the rings with the candle sticking out of his ass, [and] we’d kick him if he missed. And we crossed-dressed him, and made him sing little songs for us. 

Anyway, we were doing all this weird shit, and then she was like, “Hey!  Help me put these hard-boiled, shelled eggs into condoms.” And I was like, “What?  Okay.” So we put six hard-boiled, shelled eggs into condoms and we shoved them up this guy’s ass. Then she called all the other mistresses in, and the guy squatted down and clucked like a chicken and would poop out eggs [laughs]. And the whole time, the Japanese mistress is standing there, like “Egg show!  Egg show!” and he was there, like “[clucking sound].”  It was fucking bizarre. And I was just like, “Alright! That was really weird.  I can do this job.” 

If I were to walk into the dungeon, what would I see? 

It looks like an office building from the outside, actually. You’d meet the receptionist, and she would take you to a room. There are a bunch of rooms with themes. There’s usually a main dungeon kind of room that has suspensions. There’s a medical room that’s made to look like a doctor’s office. There’s a room with a more domestic kind of setting, because some people don’t like to feel like they’re in a dungeon. They want to feel like they’re just at home. They have fantasies that their wife is spanking them, or shit like that.

Do people ever bring their wives in? 

Yeah, but it’s rare for couples to come in. 

What’s the pricing like? 

It varies. I charge people 250 an hour. A house usually charges less than that -- between $180 and $200 an hour. But an independent mistress will usually be more experienced. 

So, what is your most frequent request? 

I see a lot of masochists. I get a lot of corporal session requests. [thinks].  I get a lot of requests from people to have me pee on them.  I don’t know why. 

What’s a “corporal session”?

Basically, giving someone a beating without necessarily verbal abuse. A lot of people get requests for role-play and shit like that, but I don’t. I guess you get known for doing a certain kind of session when you’ve been in the scene for long enough. 

Is there a specific demographic you get most, like –

Yeah! Fucking middle-aged white guys. And a lot of them are divorced -- well, a lot of the guys in their ‘40s are divorced, a lot of the older guys are married and their wives have no idea.

Do you have any idea why it appeals to them more than other people? 

I don’t think it does. I think they’re just the people that have the money. 

Do you get a lot of female clients? 

Generally not. Are you kidding? Women can get it for free. 

Let’s talk about you for a second.  Do you personally enjoy inflicting pain on people?

I think if you don’t enjoy your job, you shouldn’t do it. 

What’s it like after a session with your client? 

I have to clean up. I generally want to change out of whatever the fuck I’m wearing. 

But you don’t spend time with the client afterwards? 

No, I do. Sometimes I go out and have dinner with them. 

Is it friendly, or are you still in character?   

It’s friendly. I’m always friendly to my clients, actually. It’s not really my thing to be mean to people unless they deserve it.

Are you on good terms with other dominatrices? 

Yeah, I’m friends with the other doms. They’re usually really relaxed, chill women.  It attracts a certain kind of woman.

Are there any aspects of the job that you don’t like? 

It’s mentally tiring. You have to sit there for an hour and consistently and spontaneously come up with new shit for somebody to do. You also have to incorporate their interests into the session if you ever want them to come back. If I’m paying 250 bucks and I’m just really into wearing women’s panties, I definitely don’t want someone to beat the shit out of me. I just want to wear women’s panties.

It’s got to be a pain in the ass for people that want someone who’s really verbal, and their session’s just in their head. I knew this mistress who -- the entire session that she did with this one client was her talking while she smoked cigarettes. The guy had a smoking fetish, right, and he wanted to see her smoke cigarettes and talk about a fantasy that involved her smoking cigarettes. Every single time. And he’d see her twice a week. I remember her coming up to me, like, “This is driving me fucking insane, because I’m sick of making up stories about me smoking cigarettes!” Yeah. That shit sucks. 

So they expect you to think of everything? 

Well, yeah. That’s what the dominatrix does in a scene -- kind of like run the show. I mean, I could just sit there and do nothing for the hour, which I’ve done before. I’ve just been like, “give me a foot rub,” and I’ll just sit there and read a book [laughs]. But that’s kind of an obnoxious thing to do.

And the client was okay with that? 

Yeah. But you can’t do that every single time with that guy, or he’s just going to be like “what the fuck?” I’m sure that would get me pissed off after awhile if someone continually did that. I’ve just seen them so many times before I just didn’t know what the fuck to do with them, so I just say to them, “Give me a foot rub!”

Do you have any more funny stories that you can leave us on? 

[thinks]  Okay. So, I had this remote-controlled electrical unit, and I attached it to this guy’s balls and had him take me out to dinner to a really fancy French restaurant [laughs]. That was the funniest -- and that thing was powerful as fuck, too. And I had him give my order to the waiter while pressing the button, and he was just like “SHE would like the SOUP with ONIONS.  NO onions PLEASE,” while he was jumping up and down.  [laughs]

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